But I began searching for someone that would tie me up so that I couldn’t escape. I have been tying myself up since I was seven and I stopped before I turned 40 because I was tired of being able to escape and the whole thing had become a bore. So my question for you is this: Is my desire to be tied up sexual? If so, would be getting tied by anybody other than my wife be a sexual experience?' In a video about kink discordance you said kink is sexual. One of the guys recommended I listen to you.
I’m writing to you today because I still think about it all the time and I joined Recon to talk to see if someone would want to tie me up. She regretted agreeing to that and then accused me of getting assaulted and refused to look at the pictures. About nine years later I got her permission to have a photographer from one of a male bondage website tie me up and take my pictures. I was wrong.) I brought some rope on our honeymoon for her to tie me up with and she was upset but she tried and then she didn’t untie me for quite a while. I thought there had to be a reason that would not affect us.
(Her first husband divorced her because they had too little sex. I am a 50-year-old male married for nineteen years to a female who hates sex.
